Dating Bisexuals Q & A
Dating bisexuals questions & answers
Are homosexuals happy dating bisexuals?
To be forward, I am a homosexual, but currently am single due to a very long, complicated story . I was just dating another guy who told me that he was a homosexual as well, but over time actually came to terms that he is bisexual. At first, to me, this was hard to understand and frusterating because for four months he had told me that he was so sure he was gay, and out of the blue, tells me that he is bisexual. At first, I was uncomfortable with this idea, but I came to realize that as long as he was only with me, and not dating myself, and a woman. This has been a question in the back of my head for sometime now, but I am curious so feel the need to ask Are homosexuals perfectly content, and happy, dating bisexuals? Or are they rather, on edge with their bisexual partner?
What are your thoughts on dating bisexuals?
Would you date someone you already knew was bi? How would you feel if your long term partner came out to you as bi?I'd like some general thoughts on the matter, I'm interested what people think.My boyfriend I'm a girl of 4 months and best friend of a few years came out as bi to me a few weeks ago and it came as kind of a shock but I'm ok with it. It makes me feel weird and uncomfortable, some things are weird, like hearing him tell me about his fetish for men's underwear and how he equally enjoys gay porn to straight porn, but at the same time it's a bit of a turn on?I dunno, how would you feel in my situation?
Do you have any rules about dating bisexuals or would you ever date one/?
i ave a strict no bi girl policy. however i met this wonderful girl and it was basically love at first sight for us both. except she has a boyfriend. yes, she is bi sexual. i never would date a bisexual, or so i thought. we are taking it slow though. she is seriously considering dropping her boyfriend. but i was wondering, how many are like me and usually dont date bisexuals? are you open to it?
Why do people not like dating bisexuals?
I always hear about how a lot of men don't like the idea of dating a bisexual total surprise I have to say. I guess the idea of a threesome really is selfish in the mans case and that its the same with lesbians. They don't want to date a woman who is bisexual. Why is this so weird?
LGBT opinions wanted on dating bisexuals?
First and foremost I am a lesbian myself. I recently reconnected with a high school friend of mine who ironically enough i met in church back in the day when i was forced to go . Long story short after havent seen each other in years we met up and ended up hooking up. She confessed to me that evening over drinks that she was bi curious and always had a crush on me but didnt know how to approach it. Our relationship has now turned from friends to friends with benefits. I recently got out of a long term relationship and I've made it clear to her that i want nothing more than what we have. She's seemed perfectly fine with it especially since she's actually dating another guy currently . But lately she's been hinting towards wanting something more. I opened up to her about my standpoint on dating again and also how I don't get into serious relationships with bi girls. She was hurt about it which is understandable but i cant help how i feel. I feel like a total jerk about it. Buuutt i have dated quite a few bisexual girls and those relationships have been the most unstable and crazy I've had. Being gay myself i hate stereotyping but in my experience the same outcome always happens. They never know what they want, they want to have a bf and a gf, or they are flat out batshlt crazy lol. or all of the above. My question to you guys is whats your standpoint on dating bisexual individuals? And what has been your personal experiences with dating them? I have yet to find anyone that has had a stable relationship with someone bi. I know i'm not the only one who feels this way. I guess i just dont wanna feel like such an a$$ about it Rainbow I'm sure there are a lot of gay people who feel the same way i do. I don't mean to offend you. But i'm glad to hear of a bi relationship that has been stable and successful You guys should be spokes people for the girls i've dated lolKumo You make a valid point about her being in experimenting phases which i'm fully aware of ..But again this is only one of the bisexual girls i've dated. I've also dated girls with experience and the same outcome. However i'm glad to hear about you and your bf. May you find a lifetime of happiness. Good luck to both of you and thanks for the input. Bodyguard Although i get what you're saying i was very clear from the beginning what i wanted. I never gave her any hopes of anything developing from our friendship. Any time we've hooked up I've asked her from the beginning if she is still ok with what we have and she's repeatedly said the same thing...that she was a grown up she knew what she was doing. She just wanted to have " fun." Currently i am not looking for a relationship. I'm still young and also am just looking to have fun. You can call it what you want but my intentions were not to hurt her. In my eyes having my cake and eating it too would be stringing this girl along making it seem like i wanted something more then crushing her in the end. After all she's the one who approached me and gave me the whole " i dont want it to affect our friendship" bit. I fully intend on ending this before it gets worse.
Gays/Lez: Do you feel insecure about dating bisexuals?
All the boys around here are either bisexual or straight, I kind of feel insecure about dating bisexual guys because most of them end up with girls, so what s the point? I d like to trust a bisexual guy and date one but I naturally feel insecure. Do other gay men feel insecure about dating bisexual men and do other lesbians feel insecure about dating bisexual girls? BTW I have nothing against bisexual people.
Are you apprehensive about dating bisexuals and pansexuals?
Why or why not? For those of you who don't know what pansexual is Pansexual characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, or sexual desire towards people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Gender Blind.It's not that they're less faithful. It's more like I'm a female and being left for a guy which has happened with almost every single " bi" girl I've gone out with is more painful than them cheating with another girl. That guy has something I don't have...............................Other thing is that from reading people's questions and answers, I've come to the conclusion that a lot of people call themselves bisexual when they are really just curious. Somehow " I like kissing girls " bisexual and I disagree with that. You can kiss anyone regardless of orientation. Vanessa YEA EXACTLY They'll just do the whole, " Well, it was fun but I'm going to be straight now so I can have a normal life. See ya"
LGBT: What do you think about dating bisexuals?
I wanna know what everyone thinks about dating bisexuals.If you could state your personal opinion, then state your gender, age and orientation, that would be great Thanks
Why do lesbians refuse to date bisexuals?
I've noticed that a lot of lesbian women are completely against dating bisexuals. I can understand some of the reasons but a lot of it is just stereotype. Just because a woman is bisexual doesn't always mean she's going to want to be with a man behind her girlfriend's back. And also it doesn't mean bisexual females enjoy the company of other females ONLY for sex. I know that the stereotypes are sometimes justified, especially because nowdays it seems bisexuality is a trend, but I still find it annoying sometimes whenever I am trying to date someone who I truly have interest in. Sadly the only females I ever find are interested in dating bisexuals have been the ones who would just hook up for casual sex. So what are your feelings about this?
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